Again the same thing

Shamara • 21 and taken
Okay ik I have posted about getting preganat and ppl have told me to hold out for a few years cause I'm 18 and married but I'm worried I can't cause......I guess I'll spill it, I was raped a lol over a year ago by someone I knew when i snuck out to see my husband (at the time we was dating) and I didn't know I had got a STD clymidea until almost a year later well I got treated and got ride of it and now that we r married we have not pulled out or used anything I was on BC like 8months ago but still haven't got preganat and I'm worried it is me but my best friend told me since him cum is a light white color that he could be shooting blanks and idk what to say or do cause he wants a kid just as bad as me but idk if it's him or me or what I mean he had got a girl pregnant before but she had a miscarriage and I just idk....... What yalls thought