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Question

My boyfriend is pushing me away his  depression is at it's worst I've never seen him like this .He never wants me to come over , he doesn't call or text me and when I blow up his phone he doesn't answer for hours or days ...  I don't know what to do ??  .. He gets really bad bad anxiety attacks and he just doesn't want me around him ..
​I don't want to loose my bf I love him so much ?  
​wtf I'm broken into pieces because I can't help him ?

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All you can do is be there for him if he needs you. He needs to help himself first. If you can't take care of himself he can't take care of you

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He needs help right away! I have delt with depression myself for plenty of years an when I got to the point of blocking people out of my life is when I tried hurting myself. But everyone is different . Stop nagging him so much and stop blowing up his phone sounds like your trying to pick a fight with him. I say you need to talk to his parents and try to seek him professional help . I know depression is hard to understand for ppl who haven't delt with it themselfs. Understand is really hard to overcome with out professional help. I hope you the best of luck I'll make sure to count you in my preyers.

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Give him space.  It sounds harsh but don't be just so clingy.  If his anxiety is bad,  he needs space.  Let him come to you.  Because I'm the same way.  Just give him space but let him know you're there when you need him.  You could also consider talking to his parents and getting him some help.  I know that sounds like a scary thing because you think they'll freak out,  but it will turn out a lot better than you think.

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I think  you should talk to his parent because that's not healthy.

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Maybe you should send him a message letting him know that you're here for him when ever he is ready to talk. An maybe just give him a day or two to reflect on his problem/s.

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