Is it really that hard or is it definitely bearable? And afterwards, is it horrible, like the bleeding, or is it more similar to a heavy period? I'm just kinda worried. I'm only about 4 months but I had a dream last night that I was on a spaceship and was giving birth and the doctor said he wouldn't be able to give me medicine to help the pain and had to do a c section. Which I know if they do one you'll get meds, but still. That's about where my level of fear is right now lol