Sex with my boyfriend??

I really want to have sex and we've done it before but we had a pregnancy scare so now he is saying he wants to wait till marriage. Honestly I don't want to. I am now on birth control and his birthday is coming up and I really want to for his birthday. He just wants to do anal till marriage. I love having real sec not anal. Anal is ok but nothing compared to sex. We are young, but we have been through a lot and I am dying to have sex again. He is too but he says everytime I bring it up that it's best for us to wait but I mean he is good with condoms and I am good with my birth control. I don't know what to say anymore. I just want to do it on his birthday really bad. I even got this new really pretty red set of bras and underwear. I don't know what to do. Please give advice.