When someone tells you their cycle failed, please do not jokingly offer to carry their child for them. I know people mean well, but I don't understand why anyone thinks this is helpful. (And our fertility issues have nothing to do with this.) Sorry I just have to rant as I've heard this one too many times from the few well intentioned friends with kids that I've told and it makes me want to scream! But I can't so I'm writing this here where some of you ladies might understand.