So I'm a FTM and I don't really know how everything works with check ups and when they are supposed to do certain things but I'm 38+4 and I still haven't gotten checked to see if I'm dilated or anything , everyone thinks it's odd because they usually start checking after 36 weeks or so. Should I ask to see if they could check me ? I wanna know if I'm progressing in any way because this baby feels like she isn't going anywhere