Vent: Been asked to throw a baby show for a friend

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Just found out my friend is flying in next month, and as she's expecting her first, is expecting me to organize & throw a baby shower *bangs head against wall*
Meanwhile, we're still TTC#1 (egg retreival is tomorrow) and it's getting harder to stay sane
UPDATE: Thank you all for your comments. I've been in the Suck-it-Up-and-Just-Deal-with-It Club all my life, but I've decided to tell her that she needs to ask someone else as I just can't (& don't want to).