My husband tends to make it seem like I don't ever do anything for him. His birthday is Monday and I can finally do something for him so I paid for him and a few family members to go to the movies with us. Then told him I want to have a little party for him before the movie. When he told people about the party he didn't even say the word "party". He said , " come hang out with me before the movie" and didn't mention I was doing this for him. For Christmas I got him a few things plus a fitbit thing he had been asking for. He bragged to everyone about what he got me but didn't tell anyone what I got him. He makes me look bad in front of his family and even tells me I don't do anything for him. I can't always do things for him but I try when I have the money but it never seems good enough. I even borrowed money from my mom the other day to get ME some food since im pregnant and hadn't eaten much but I saved it until he got off work and instead of going to the store with it, he wanted fast food so I spent it on that instead. Its like he's blind and can't see what I do. I give in to everything he wants to try and make him happy and see that info love him. Even now, decorating our baby' s nursery....he knew I wanted it do it a certain way but as soon as we got in the store he went on and on about another theme that was boyish. I wanted it girly since we're having a girl. But I didn't want him to feel bad so I changed my mind he let him pick. He also picked out the crib. I've haven't gotten to do anything but carry the baby. Maybe there's something I'm doing wrong. Maybe I shouldn't just give in to everything. I just don't want him to feel like everything is about me and what I want.

Any advice?