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So me and my partner have done anal before and i dont like it because it hurts. What did yall do to not make it hurt so bad and actually make it enjoyable?

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Y'all are sugar coating this... this girl is asking for advice. The sex part is easy to get past....a bit of liquor and a lot of lube. But that's not the worst post of it. The worst part is the next day when you have to take a shit and it hurts just as bad if not worse than the sex. And this you experience all on your own, bc your man is not going to be there to brush your hair outta your face and tell you he loves you while you're sitting on the pot praying for the pain to pass.

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Slam some Jameson and use like 20lbs of lube. I dont do it, but I imagine that would be the only way I would consider trying. Good luck you brave adventurer.

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He just needs to be patient and slow use lots and lots of lube something like durex feel (ky dries up too quick) take deep breaths and relax get partner to enter you bit by bit and stop after each time he pushes to give you chance to get used to the feeling. I find lying flat on my front helps some positions are more painful then others. And get partner to try when he's not fully erect my partner does it when he's still a bit soft so that as he enters and grows he's already inside me...once he's in and your comfortable he can start gently thrusting until your happy and then can get faster. 
Good luck :) x.

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Not trying to be vulgar here but he also needs to make sure your extremely wet and turned on, toys and lube does wonders but also be careful because it can be extremely pleasurable because of the bundle of nerves there

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Okay so my first experience was terrible. We were drunk, no lube, nothing. Had no idea what was about to go down. Lets just say in less than 30 seconds I had ripped and was crying..  A few times after that he slipped and I cried one of those times as well... For his birthday recently we had been drinking and I decided we could try one more time.. (After I had gotten some advice from more experienced women).. Lube! Lots of lube!  Right when he enters you. Let it sit for a second without either of you moving so your  skin there gets numb .. Then proceed with caution!
​Good luck. I don't personally like it. But every now and then it's nice to treat him!

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Take your sweet sweet time with this, because it can be extremely painful and you can tear yourself, which is unhealthy in several ways. Make sure you're turned on, I like to have a vibrator on my clit the entire time as a distraction. Lube up a finger, and slowly insert it so your body adjusts. Finger yourself, in and out, scissoring, until you get used to it, and keep adding fingers this way,  until you've stretched roughly to the size of whatever you intend to put in (whether it be a dildo as practice or the real thing). It'll take a few times until it starts to feel good, and yeah itmll kinda feel like you have to shit, but you get used to it over time. Remember to keep yourself stimulated! If you focus too much instead of just feeling good, you'll lose it and become uninterested. I've always done it this way and have never been in significant pain. Remember, you can never use too much lube! Hope this helps!

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They make a lube called analeez it's a  numbing lube that'll help his member slide in easier with less pain.. But also streching is a really good way to help with pain during and after anal.. If your stretched properly you should have minimal to no pain during the anal and the day after..butt plugs are a great example

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Liquor and lube

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Ok so at first my man and I tried and it really hurt but he has to losen you up first use lube or your asking for it to work and if your on top it doesn't hurt at all after he losens you its all good and it's a really big turn on

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I've never used lube.. or liqueur. We just take it as we want. It is uncomfortable and slightly painful to begin with. But eh. I like it.

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