Things people say :/

On 9/24 I had surgery due to an ectopic pregnancy. I lost both my baby and my left tube. It has been a  devastating experience. Last night while having dinner with my sister in laws, one said "if it makes you feel better it wasn't really a baby just a bunch of cells" Nope that doesn't make me feel better. In fact i angrily responded that no you're wrong it was MY baby. When she tried to re explain biology to me I left. I'm not dumb I understand biology but what some people don't understand is the moment you see those 2 pink lines your life changes- forever. That was my baby and I cry for her each day. I know my SIL wasn't trying to be hurtful but she also believes she has no reason to apologize. It's so hard for me to not be angry.