I was talking to a girlfriend the other day about having children and she said she didn't want to because she "would honesty feel so uncomfortable about her body" during and after. I've always been thin without having to do much to maintain it. I do worry that my whole body type would change after having children (which I consider a sacrifice I'm very willing to make).  My SO is very into fitness and thinks anyone can change their appearance if they just try hard enough (I don't agree) and it makes me nervous about how he would see me during a pregnancy (even though he we never and has never made a negative comment about my body). I'm starting to feel self-conscious and I'm not even pregnant yet! Am I the only one?!