TV/Movies shock value becoming pornagraphic?

I'm not against a sexy movie but American humor tends to be a little immature sometimes. Toilet jokes and BOOBS. It seems movies and TV are always trying to shock, etc. From wrestling women in full makeup & vinyl gasping orgasmically to crazy sex scenes (Deadpool goes as far as including Pegging & do I really want to see another couple have sex on Valentine's Day? Women are supposed to feel okay about it and just "be chill"?)

Movies are becoming almost pornagraphic but with even better lighting and "allowed". I've always been pretty open minded and experimental but lately I realise that the longest marriages have couples that don't watch porn, take care of each other and basically live in the outskirts. It is why there is more divorce, the exposure to these oversexualised scenes. I don't want my children knowing what pegging is.

I'm looking at Sophia Loren, many people's parents, etc and their marriages.

Aside from drag my SO to the boonies and raise kids, and ban TV I don't know what to do about this aggravation I am starting to feel. I'm very attractive but it's hard to always be on. Overstimulation.

Am I alone in these thoughts?