No orgasm??

I've had sex twice before and its felt good. However I've never had an orgasm during intercourse. I've been eaten out and didnt orgasm. However I've orgasmed many times by masturbating with a shower head or hot tub jets. Do i have like a high tolerance for them or something? Will I never orgasm by a man? Penetration makes my orgasms better but extreme clit simulation is a must, i don't think any guy could do it.