SHOULD I DATE MY FRIENDS BF??

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PLEASE READ I NEED HELP WITH THIS‼️‼️
Ok so don't think that I'm a bad person or anything, read this first.
So last year there was this kid that I had a crush on and I really liked him but I didn't want to date him because he was immature. But he was someone that could make me laugh and was goofy like me. I've never meet someone like that before that made me so nervous but happy when I see or hear them.So we both liked each other but we were to nervous to say anything so we never dated. Then he moved on to my friend but she didn't know that we had anything going on. So the next school year comes and they are dating and everyone calls them a cute couple blah blah blah. So we have a class (the guy)together and when she isn't around we flirt. Ik that's bad but it's not heavy flirt it's just like if he push me I push him back or I will touch his stomach or he will tickle me.  So I don't know what to do because if they break up should I try to get with him before I graduate or should just let them be and not try to date him??? I'm confused because I really like him and I have never had someone like me like this before. And I tried to stop liking him I even avoided him but when I see him he grabs me around me waist or gets in my face I just fall back into liking him again. Please help me figure out what to do.

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Girl code: never date a friend's ex simple as that. As to the flirting cut it off immediately because you're being an awful friend and I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate herding that to you

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Honestly who's more important a guy who's going off to college soon and will probably leave you behind since you guys haven't dated long or a friend who will be there no matter what! If this guy really liked you he would have dated you in the first place.

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I don't see how that's considered flirting considering I've had guy friends who I've done things like that with. I think you're just in denial that he chose your friend over dating you and are claiming he also liked you just so someone will agree you should try to date him. But that's shitty as fuck man. He chose to date YOUR FRIEND (you're a terrible excuse for a friend) he didn't choose to date YOU when he had the chance to. Let them be happy. If you were a true friend you'd stay away from the guy. This is disgusting.

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Oh and you are just simply ruining girl code like damn😂

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Really ? How would you feel if she was in your position ? Would you care if she flirted and messed around with your boyfriend that you liked ? You had your chance and didn't take it and now that she's happy you're trying to mess that up ?

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Obviously you and this kid have been flirting back and forth.. I have a friend that I think is doing to same thing with my boyfriend. I never knew she liked him but the signs that you talk about make we wonder is she feeling this way about my bf to. She is athletic like myself and he might like that about her to. But if you were truly friends with that friend you would stop talking to there boyfriend all the way.. Like my friend also doesn't know that I know about it because I see them at practice together... All I can say is get you shit together because what if you were in the situation.. Simply because it hurts😕

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Also here's a question for you.. If he really like you before him and your friend started dating then why didn't y'all date or why aren't y'all dating now? Now can u see that he was just teesing you!

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Ok so I've been in a similar situation and here's how in my perspective you should act. 1. Flirting is flirting no if's and's or but's if you are actively and consciously flirting with him you are allowing him to cheat on your friend. If she saw your boyfriend doing what you do with him with another girl wouldn't you want her to tell you? 2. Is the possibility of dating this one guy more important than your friendship? 3. If he really likes you enough to be a good boyfriend in the future he would have broken up with her or never dated her in the first place. He sounds like he's just having fun and that won't end well for you or your friend.

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Olivia you aren't fooling anyone

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I don't get why you guys are so offended by her question. Why are you guys calling her a bad friend. I mean, yes I agree choosing a guy over a friend is not the right decision but I wouldn't blame her because the heart want what it wants (Ik I quoted Selena Gomez). To the person who asked this question, you don't need this guy. If he doesn't have the guts to take the step further he's not worth it! Plus as other girls brought out he asked your friend. Which is sketchy af. You'll find the RIGHT guy who'll make you laugh and smile. Without having to go behind your friend's back.

SHOULD I DATE MY FRIENDS BF??

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