So after about a year of being in an exclusively monogomous relationship and conversations about our future and in about a year to actively start ttc.. I currently have a 5 yr old boy who is autistic but the sweetest little guy u can meet. My sons father has never been in the picture so my son has never had a father figure. My SO is the most my son has ever had in terms of loomi g up to someone. Ive never once asked him to watch my son to go out or anything.. Im always in this routine of work pick up little man then home and cook tend to our dogs n do the reg home duties.. So last weekend he goes out with his boys, no problem no fighting.. There was absolutly no issue. Then last night i tell him im going to go out for a few with a girl from work just have some girl time and its a problem.. "Oh your gonna wake me up when u get home " "do you have a babysitter?" mind you Tristan was fed, showered and in bed asleep at this time, so no he didnt have to physically watch him. Then he says "im not trying to be a baby sitter especially for your benefit" WHAT THE #$&!?!?! Im livid.. Not about me going out but about what he said.. Am i over reacting.. I mean if he feels that way it seems as though maybe i should take a step back from "playing house" when its seems as tho he doesnt want the same things.. What are your opinions???