Husband called me a bad wife?!?!

I work Monday thru Friday, 8 am to 5 pm. Then on Mondays, Tuesdays and Wednesday I work part time for my friend and her cleaning business from 5pm to 8pm. I didn't really need the extra money but she was in a bind. Anyways my husband works from 6pm to 4am Wednesday, Thursday, Friday and Saturday. I've been so tired this week and slacked off with dinner. He told me last night he wants me to quit my second job because I've become a "bad" wife. He kinda chuckled and went to bed. He doesn't realize how hurt I am. He's such a hard worker, but the entire time we've been married he's cooked maybe 6 times. Am I overreacting.