Should I continue to struggle w/ him if i love him

Br
My bf wasnt well off wen we got together 2 years ago but I helped let him have my car to go to work nd drive to come visit me on weekends at school  I helped him fill out apps md made resumes for him help him get a new phone my mom showed him were he could get a cheap car nd cosigned even put him on our insurance he works hard dont get me wrong but i feel we only moved a inch in 2 years instead of a step. I wanna get our apartment  but im just waiting on him. My mom told me to move on meet other successful guys in college but idt I should give up on him. Hes helped me so much too while in school. I get annoyed that now he's constantly helping his brother with his kids or giving free ride to his family and his mom always ask for money he has bills, loans,tickets he tryna pay nd i end up being the one to help him when he broke nobody but me. He even decided he wants to go to school nd wen he couldn't get the deposit before the deadline his family ignored him nd i paid. But im not his wife so i cant tell him what to do with his money and dont wanna be rude but his family adding to the struggle and im tired of him being broke idk what to do. I thought he would be finally moving together this year, getting engaged or planning a family. When i try to tell him how to handle his money and constantly tell him about higher paying jobs and ect but ik he gets annoyed nd thinks im nagging im 20 hes 25