I told my boyfriend of 3 years, I don't like the relationship with him and his ex so I told him to cut it off. I didn't want him talking to her. No friendship is that friendly. We're both 21, I'm away at college and he's home working 4 hours away. I don't go through his phone and hope for something to find. I go through his phone when I have it and I just wanna go through it. The first time it was okay I guess, I told him there's not a need for him to keep her number. He didn't delete, so I did it for him. Then a few month later he's following her on Instagram and I said what is this about and he says oh I didn't even know. I said how the hell do you not know? Your Instagram just adds people for you? He said idk, I didn't know I followed her. I told him I'm not stupid, if the profile is private it notifys you saying "you are now following." Second time, I go through his phone and find pictures of her in a prom dress, I asked him why did have those? He said I was trying to ask her for my sister. I said hold up, your sister and her are friends, your sister has a phone she could've done it, how did you get her number again anyway? He said idk. Third scenario, I like going through snapchat because I don't have one and watching his friends stories. And who did I see once again? The ex girlfriend. He's friended her he's seen her stories vice verse, I threw the phone and said here, tell her I said. He said who as I was walking out, I said your ex. He said what are you talking about I don't have her on snapchat? I left. I should've lost it, but I just left.