Should I move in with my boyfriend?

Question

Is ve been dating my boyfriend for over a year now and we are considering getting an apartment together! I love him so much and really hope I can spend the rest of my life with him! The only thing is that I'm only 19 and his 18. Plus my mother is very protective and wants me to stay at home for a while longer. I love my mom and don't want to make her mad, but at the same time I really want to take this step with my boyfriend! What do you guys think? Should I move in with him?

Answer

You don't want to make your mom mad though I would suggest if your going to make an adult move you need to be an adult and let your mom know how you feel. At the end of the day if something goes wrong with your boyfriend you will need your moms help. I was in the same exact situation take my advice please! Also before moving in try getting a job and taking on your own bills so you are more ready for the adult world and all that I know I wasn't ready. Also start building credit now and keep it perfect so you can have your own things ! Hope this helps :)

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I was in a very similar situation. I was 19 and my SO 21. However we had only been dating 16 months when we decided it was time to get our own place. My mum lived on her own so it was really difficult for me to take the step and leave home. 
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​Bottom line is , I was ready. We both were. My mom wasn't thrilled when we announced the idea but after some financial talking and reassurance she came around. I also tried to include her in the process more than anyone and she was kind of more excited than me. Now I feel like I could never go back to my moms because this is my home now. It's the best thing I ever did. If you feel ready, then you do what's best for you in the long run. Hope this helps sweetie & all the best x