Over reacting ?!?

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My so and I have been married for a year and I asked him to not talk to his ex bc when he gets mad he says shit like "your worse then my ex..," and shit he's just mad he doesn't mean it. But he agreed that he would not talk to her and delete her number and on Facebook. Then today like 8months later I get a suggested friend and it's her the ex and not one but two face books ! I got suggested Friends bc the only mutual friend is my so.we went to a friends house and I texted him this 
You know how sometimes when you scroll through Facebook they suggest people you might know ? 
Guess who I might know bc I have one mutual friend ....?
KARINA!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
Guess who the mutual friend is ?????? 
YOU!!!!! 
babe I asked you to delete her bc I don't like that your friends with her especially since every time you get mad at me you bring her up ....
I don't wanna fight babe I don't 
It just shocked me when she popped up as a suggested friend when two face books of hers pop up as a mutual friend ..... Cause you said you deleted her....
I thought you did....until she popped up 
I hate it when your mad at me and you bring her up I don't feel comfortable that your friends with her....please delete her you always bring her up when we fight.....
Well anyway now you know how I feel I thought you did before well I don't wanna fight I wanna have a good time ....love you babe 
And he said shut up and laughed and I was like Anne I'm serious and he was like I don't care I ain't gunna play your childish games it's not like Ima fuck her she's in Cali and I was like why did you add her ? What was the point? And he was like I don't care be in your feeling you said you wanted to have fun tonight but you lie cause you over reacting .....ladies am I over reacting ?

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"It ain't like I'm gonna fuck her she lives in California." Yeah that don't sit well for me. So what if she wasn't in California?

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I would most definitely not deal with that. I'd flip my shit. Who cares if she's in Cali its still disrespecting you. The way I see it there is NO reason to bring an ex into a new relationship UNLESS you have to because of children. You asked him not to the first time and he did it again. If they don't like each other there's no reason for them to be friends and talking. I went through similar things and the girl was from Wisconsin and were in Tennessee but the things I saw sent between each other was VERY disrespectful and hurtful no matter how many states away she is..... nobody deserves that and especially not you. Don't deal with what you don't deserve, be with someone who will treat you right and with respect.

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Nope, it'd be different if he told you the truth from the beginning. He lied and added her anyways, I think that's kind of shady. I'm not saying ex's can't ever be friends on fb, but be upfront about it in the first place.

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He's cheating or atleast hiding something.

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I know I'm late but it's not that you over reacting it is just appearing to seem that way... You shouldn't have to feel like you have to be an investigator and he shouldn't give you a reason to feel as such.... Try a different angle he already showed you how he feel about the situation you just haven't excepted that he doesn't care about how it's hurting you... Put on your grown woman panties and be extremely nonchalant don't bring it up anymore he expect you to be an overreact so give him the opposite...

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No your SO is a dickkkk. Delete her for him. You don't deserve any less.

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No disrespect to you but-   You're with a liar, and he doesn't care enough about you to follow your wishes. 
I would never allow this in my relationship. I wish you luck.

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Nope. He should have respected what asked. You would have done the same for him deleated the ex. Id say you need to be watchfull.... Shes that ex that alwase pops back up..

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