I use pads. But most of the time I use tampons. I'm 14 and my mom knows I use pads, but doesn't know I use tampons. I'm tired of hiding tampon wrappers, and wrapping them up in toilet paper and shoving them to the bottom of the trash can. I want to tell her so don't have to do everything in secret. But I know my mom will think I lost my virginity (which I did) and I will get a ass whupping of my lifetime if she finds out I use tampons. Should I tell her? Or keep it to myself? Thanks.