Would you have sex if you weren't guaranteed to have an orgasm (either from yourself or your partner)?

Okay, so this topic came up in the break room last week: Would you have sex if you weren't 100% sure you'd cum at least once sometime during it?

Surprisingly, every single one of the men said "Hell no!" and so did I...but all of the other women said "yeah, I'd be fine with that so long as the sex was loving/cuddly". I was absolutely blown away by this!

To me, orgasms are just an automatic part of sex...I always equate one with the other since I am very easily orgasmic. Even if the sex isn't mutually reciprocal (like giving a blowjob), I still use a toy or my own hand to get off. I guess (to me!), it wouldn't really be sex otherwise. Plus, it hurts A LOT to have been aroused and not have the relief from it that orgasm brings, so I'm having trouble understanding why anyone would willingly go through that.

So now I am curious:

Ladies of Glow, do you need an orgasm during sex to be satisfied? If not, how do you deal with "blue clit" aka vasocongestion pain from not climaxing...or do you not experience this? 😞