So I've known this guy for almost 7 years... the start of our relationship was him trying to always get in my pants... and eventually we did and it became the norm for us for about 5 years (even though he had a girlfriend he claimed he loved) the recently broke up about 6 months ago. I got pregnant had a miscarriage in Dec. He kisses me and says he loves me to death and I'm the closest woman to him other than his mother and best friend BUT he doesn't want to be in any kind of relationship.. he's actions towards me (kissing when we part, extended hugs, cuddle time, amazing sex, forehead kisses, touching me randomly, rubbing my legs while we just sit and watch tv, picking him up from work, venting about his life, helping his career, etc) does not scream friendship..

What is this??