Conflicted....

Okay so to make a long story short, my bd && I are not together, we were not together when I got pregnant && we have no intentions of getting back together (we had a previous relationship). I don't want to exclude him from all the exciting baby things such as the classes, the appointments, and of course the birth, but at the same time, I don't want him to be there because err aren't a "family" ... Am I just being a bitch? Should I just drop it and let him come or, talk to him about it ?