Going with the flow this month

Alicia
I'm in my fertile window according to all my <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android">fertility apps</a>. Usually ovulate around CD16, which is today, and other than some cramps I'm not having my usual signs of ovulation (like EWCM)....but my husband and I have been BDing a lot just in case.
I just don't want to stress this month, and try to trust the process. My first born was a surprise, and I was on birth control. This time around, now that we're trying, and into TTC cycle 5, it feels so hard.
Maybe there is some truth in not trying so hard? Please send some good thoughts and prayers that I can relax this month and just go with the flow? Thanks.