I understand you need to vent and have someone to talk to, but EVERY night is not acceptable. He isn't your pyscologist. He cannot be avaliable every second you have a problem and then for you to suddenly disappear when you feel your life is in order. If you are only going to be his friend when your life is unstable then don't bother at all. He is not there to pick up your broken pieces. Once or twice I understand everyone has a rough patch but all the time. No. Your life is like a soap and to be honest we do not need your drama when we are concentrating on moving forward in our life. Also guess what he doesn't care about your drama. He's just to polite to tell you to fuck off.

lots of love.