D&C, pill, or natural?

Can anyone share their experiences with any of the three? I had a missed miscarriage, I'm 8w3d but baby stopped growing at 6w1d. Nothing is happening yet and I'm leaning towards either a D&C or the pill. I'm not sure if I can handle the pill, I heard it can be really painful, but my doctor's opinion is that she would avoid surgery if possible. Just would love to hear your stories. Thanks in advance