Guy always finishes quick ?

Does it fustrate anyone else when you are so in the mood and when it's came to sex it's over in 5 minutes. The guys say it's because I have a ' nice good tight pussy' .. I am really tight but it fustrates me lol, all 5 guys I've slept with have all finished with in 5 minutes ? Except for one of my ex's who used to keep it going or we used to switch it up... But he still finished rather quick so we just used to have many rounds of it lol.  The last guy I slept with, I was so turned on and after hours of him grafting we had sex and he literally lasted like 4 minutes. I want some pleasure to haha, are the guys I've slept with just bad in bed or Isit me ?