I think everyone needs to know this because I'm getting a little worried that a lot of people think "popping your cherry" is normal or okay. It's not. If you bleed from sex, whether it's your first time or hundredth, it's because your hymen is being torn. There's no ball waiting to explode and say "Hey you just lost your virginity." Proper, safe, and healthy sex should rarely ever lead to bleeding, aside from other situations. You aren't supposed to tear the hymen. It's not good for your body and it's not something you should expect after your first time. Be relieved if you have sex for the first time and don't bleed. That's better to your body. Thank you. Have a wonderful day!!