Postpartum sex

Arianna • With the love of my life and mother to our handsome little boy ❤️
Hello ladies. Ftm here and have a couple questions. I just had my son 4 weeks ago. I know the doctors and everyone tells you to wait 6 weeks but it's really really hard. The stitches are all healed up but it just feels a bit bruised down there. I don't think I can wait any longer I'm going crazy here lol how long did you ladies wait to have sex again after vaginal delivery? If before 6 weeks, did it hurt? Did it cause any infection? Also, does the vagina go back to normal after? Tightness wise. Thank you in advance!