My husband wants to video tape the birth and I DO NOT! Like we won't even be telling people that I've gone into labor until after the baby is born, I'm just a very private person & don't want a video of it at all. We wouldn't even watch it any way, we would have to buy a video camera specifically for the birth. We have never watched old videos from when we were kids. And I would like him to be up at my shoulders the whole time. Sure sneek a peak once or twice, but for the most part, just be up at my shoulders for support. I dunno, I know all these reasons are so all over the place, I just get kind of an ookey-creepy crawly feeling when I think about him all up in my junk with a video recorder.