I want to divorce my hubby

I really want to divorce my husband because I am tired of the disrespect, I know he is cheating on me and the constant misery he puts me through. I am scared because I am pregnant with our third child and I don't know how it will affect the children. He is the type that when we quarrel and I get sick, he would completely ignore me. I have given him several chances and I am fed up.
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Li

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No one  can decide for you but if I was put in ur situation it's better for me to leave for the sake of the children. It's not healthy for the kids to live in a home where there is no happiness. Every child deserves love and happiness and a happy home And you have to give that to them You can make it without him if you set your mind to what you need and what u want and what you deserve Be strong you are in our prayers wish you the best. Wish u healthy pregnancy and baby and wish you a happy home for the kids 

Ol

Ola • Feb 20, 2016
thank you.

Ni

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I divorced my ex when my kids were 4 and 8. It was hard but it would have been harder on them to be apart of an unhappy marriage. Now I'm remarried and they get to see a happy relationship full of love. Your kids will be okay if you are :) 

Am

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Coming from a person that had to be in this situation from a kids view it's very hard. My mother and blood dad got a divorce when I was two and never saw him after that. Well when I was 8 they got back together and that's where the damage was done. I can't speak about what's going on with your house but my parents would fight all the time he yelled at my mother all the time. He drank all the time. He never hit her but he threw things. When I turned 11 he kicked us out after my birthday party that he didn't go to. I can't stand hearing people yell, I cry, I break down. It took a lot to realize my SO wasn't gonna leave just because we had a disagreement thankfully 3 1/2 years and still going strong. But those three years we were with my blood dad has and still effects my adult life. My mom has always told me she's sorry for putting me through that she went back to him so I could have a father and a mother.  I'm so thankfully my mother met my Dad well step dad when I was 13 and he showed us how we were suppose to be treated. Sadly he was taken from us due to cancer 3 years this year. Please think about the effect this is going to have on the kids. You and the kids do not deserve to be treated like that. 

Ol

Ola • Feb 20, 2016
thanks

Na

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Your in my prayers.. It's a tough situation that will have s lasting effect on you and your children. I had to make that decision for me and my girls 5 years ago and I still struggle with it. I just hope you have a good support system to get you through it. God bless

Ol

Ola • Feb 20, 2016
thank you.

Aa

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From kids view , it's not hard and nothing will go wrong with them . They won't get even Deseret some teenagers and kids just make it an excuse to do what they want or and excuse of the bad thing they did . But seriously it's nothing didn't affect them at all . It's even better because when ur unhappy u make them unhappy that's the real problem here so many of those kids whom are devestayed from a divorce because the mother didn't want to get divorce and she was so attached to her husband . ❤️wish you all the luck and hope you and your kids will be happy . 

Ol

Ola • Feb 20, 2016
thank you.

Ta

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You can always leave but some states you can't get divorced while pregnant. It's sucks I know. But don't stay somewhere you don't feel welcome.

Ta

Taryn • Feb 20, 2016
i hope things get better

Ol

Ola • Feb 20, 2016
thankd

Bu

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Honestly the children can probably sense that you're unhappy and it will make them unhappy. When you're happy your children are happy. Children need happy parents even if that means them living in two different places 

Cr

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I am also pregnant with my third and going through divorce. Iv been really sick with hg and he didnt want to deal with it. So I know how it feels to be uncared for especially at the worst time. Im not so much sad about him and I ending.. Mainly upset tht i have to sit here pregnant with 6 more months to go sick as heck as I also take care of our 3 and 7 yr olds by myself. Sometimes I cry cause I just want all the pain to stop.. The sickness.. Just everything to be over.

Va

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What state are you in? In texas you cant divorce if your pregnant (stupid rule) its hard leaving and for a child its hard coming from a divorced family but as things settle it gets easier, do what you think is rightfor you amd your children. No one diserves to be treated like crap in a marriage. 

Al

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Leave you will make it. As long as he thinks you need him he will keep running over you. Praying for you

Ol

Ola • Feb 20, 2016
thanks.