Weed while pregnant

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One of my husbands friends is pregnant and we went out to have dinner with them. Ahe is 14 weeks and says doing just great but later confided in me that she is still smoking weed to "help with anxiety". I'll admit i was shocked and a little disgusted. My first statement was thats not safe thst smoking anything while pregnant is dangerous. But my first question was where are you even getting it(I've never bought it and the thought of someone selling it to a pregnant woman was a little baffling)whelp her husband is dealing it. I'm thrown by this i told her congrats try not to smoke with the baby its not healthy but i could already see she was blowing me off.

Has anyone else had this happen, i mean it can't be safe right? Am i wrong to think less of them for this?