Help needed from experienced moms

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I'm 12w 1d. At my 8w check up docs told me they saw a small subchorionic hematoma that would more than likely fix itself. I haven't had any pains besides normal cramping but I have spotted a few times during the entire 12 weeks. Nothing major. I have a docs appt coming up soon at 14 weeks. should I request to be seen earlier since I'm noticing more cramping? They're not painful, but I do notice them. Could it just be the baby growing? Am I just being mental?
BTW, I'm still sick as a dog! When will this end?!?  This baby is sucking the life out of me. 
This is my first pregnancy after two miscarriages just to give a little background.