Does it bother you when your bf/husband/gf calls other women hot in front of you?

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I understand that men are attracted to other women, and that's ok and perfectly healthy as long as they don't act on it. But I feel sensitive when my bf calls other women hot or mentions their bodies etc in front of me. It also bothers me when he talks about girls he has hooked up with in the past.

I can't tell if I'm overreacting or if he just shouldn't be talking about this stuff in front of me?

I think what makes me so sensitive about it is the fact that he has a low sex drive and I have a high one, so I feel like he doesn't find me attractive but is attracted to these random women (which I know isn't the case but my mind can't help but go there).

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It's disrespectful. Like I get it other women are hot but that's not something you say to your wife ✋🏼 I'm so happy my husband isn't like this.

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We look at woman together it's fun Lol

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Can't lie, that would bother me too. 
And I know it would bother my boyfriend if I did the same, I don't actually look at other people (crazy right?) I'm totally in love with my boyfriend and think he's the hottest guy ever! XD why would I need to check out anyone else! XD

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My husband would never say anything like that in front of me. I'm sure he thinks that about certain women and I'm ok with that, he's human, when I pass a really cute guy in my head I'm like damn he's hot doesn't mean anything.

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Mine doesn't. He might comment if I say something first, but he's seriously the best! He says he gets whatever he wants at home so why would he even look elsewhere? Lol

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My husband never makes comments like that, but we will both agree if someone is good looking or if we are walking down the street I'm usually the one that's all...oh em gee did you see her ass?? We get a kick out of it  he can acknowledge good looking men, but nothing ever gets out of control and if I ever had an issue with something he said or did, we would just talk about it and work it out. ;)

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Hahaahaha 🤔👊💥🚑🏥 he knows not to lol

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Obviously other women are attractive. I get offended when he mentions celebrities are good looking which I know is ridiculous.
It's just an emotion and has to managed.

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I comment on other guys but strangers or actors and keep it vague like "he is good looking." I think a guy should keep it vague too... Shouldn't share whether another women's ass or boobs look good. I would never comment on his friends... Maybe say he is good looking when we both know that's true

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We do it together, but I think I call them hot more than he does.

Does it bother you when your bf/husband/gf calls other women hot in front of you?

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