Background: My ex-boyfriend and I were basically college sweetheart. I started messing with him my freshmen year and that lasted until senior year. We were officially together for 1 year and 9 months. I recently just graduated in December but I graduated early which means he is away in college right now. He broke up with me 2 weeks before I graduated bcus he said he wanted to work on becoming a better man for himself and for me. During our relationship, I caught him on 3 different occasions texting and talking to other girls which I forgave him for. And he has became physically abusive on 2 occasions which I also forgave him for. I want to add that I'm not perfect and I'm not the easiest person to deal with either. We all have a faults in relationships.I would say we were in a toxic relationship but his my first real grown up relationship so my decision making wasn't and  isn't the best.