I'm so tired of hearing this question.. No I'm not ready!! I'm not ready physically, mentally, down right not ready! But will I ever be? Nope. One can not prepare themselves. Yes I'm miserable and yes I'm ready to just be normal again! But all honestly I want him to stay in forever. I'm afraid to become a mom of two! But who wouldn't be? So many thoughts run through my head.. How am i going to raise two kids alone? Will I favor the baby over my daughter? How can I make sure my daughter doesn't feel left out? Will my daughter love her baby brother? How will I handle any jealousy issues? When will I have the one on one time with her that she will need? How can I keep her involved as much as possible? Will she think I will love him more then her? All those questions will continue to run through my mind, and not one person can honestly give me the answers.. Once he's born then I know all those questions will be answered in times and yes I'll figure it out when the time comes! What do people really want for answer when they ask "are you ready" what would their reaction be if you honestly told them no? When you do they assume you need items for baby.. But in reality it's not about items for the new baby and what you need, its you yourself physically, and mentally.

Sorry had to vent.

I know things will be just fine, and everything will work out on its own :) just got to be positive! Like my mom always says "no point in stressing or worrying, it doesn't solve anything"

Single mom and proud :D