Is it just me?

Mariah
So my fiancé has no sex drive like he barely and rarely wants sex. I've tried lingerie I've tried sexy matching bra and panties, it doesn't turn him on. I get sex maybe once or twice a month. He won't let me give him passionate kisses he's really would like to give them to me. I have to wait for him to want sex. Most of the time I've already gone to bed when he wants it, He usually wakes me up to have sex, and then won't cuddle me afterwards. Is it just me or is anyone else having this problem?