I'm 35w2d .. This is my first pregnancy. I've done lots of reading and research and I'm so scared. I am a what if kind of person unfortunately.. What if it hurts too bad and I can't push. What if the umbilical cord is around her neck.. When I had my period my cramps were going to be the death of me. I am in pain from a paper cut. I am a baby I know. I Just dont deal with pain well. AT ALL... I am trying to be strong because my husband is also scared because he hates to see me in pain and he knows there isnt much he can do to help when I'm giving birth to our baby girl. I'm freaking out.. My mom has horror stories from giving birth to me .. Which obviously does not help what so ever.. Can someone please help calm me down. I'm literally petrified. I cannot sleep at night because I just lay in bed thinking and panicking...