He doesn't give head.

Okay so when we were dating, he gave me head when I wanted. Now we're married and it's like never happening. I bring it up and he just tells me that he doesn't like to do it or that he just wants to go straight to doing it. I don't want head all the time but every once in a while. Maybe even for special occasions? I'm getting nothing! Idk what else to do. We've argued bad about it but still nothing.