My 7yrs long boyfriend broke up with me this past Friday well he didn't say it straight to my face but it was very obvious he was trying to tell me to leave. ever since he got a new job last November ,he started to change on January drinking every day then he got his old job as a second job which he don't work on fridays at that job ,well on Friday before valentines he didn't come home he works with his brother in law and his in law brought his car back saying that he stayed over there drinking and that he was going to pick him up later then he tells me to go with them to pick him up after insisting i went and we couldn't find him well i'm sure he knew where he was bcus we ended up going to a street where there where alot of clubs and restaurants well he was at a club he said he was there with his managers and said whats so wrong about that , well he ended up spending $200 all that day on food drinks and pool games that on valentines he had no money at all , I don't care if he had no money to take me out or anything bcus we had gone through that other valentines but of course it bothered me bcus he had the money he just decided to spend it that night and didn't care about doing anything special that day, well this Friday again he stays drinking and I told him if this was going to be an every week thing that he should be with us his family since we hardly see him all week well he ended up telling me that he's tired of me that i trip for every little thing and that he's tired of me checking up on him like if he was a little kid which before it wouldn't even bother him he would tell me how much he got payed and what he wasted on but suddenly me asking him all that started to bother him, well he says he's tired of my attitude and that both him and I knew this was coming that our relationship is dead that he "loves me" but he just can't continue with this anymore, he says it's not another girl or anything that it's just him tired of our relationship, we broke up last year about the same time but when we had broken up he would text me and call me acting like we're still together telling me how much he loves me , he's not doing that this time I just really feel like he's over me and that is another girl bcus it was like 3weeks ago that i started to feel him more distance....It just really hurts and I didn't want my son to have to be going to his dad just on the weekends but i feel like this is a long term thing now 💔