Does baby get to live w mother or should mother move to baby daddy's even though they aren't married?

Alexandria
The father to my baby and I are always fighting but we do love each other we just never agree on anything Bc of how we were raised. I'm due in May and told him I'd be staying home w my mother (2 ppl live here and now myself) and he can come here. He disagrees feeling that I should go to his parents house (8 ppl live there) or the baby should be able to stay w him even though I need to be w her for to feed her. I say no Bc it's inconvient for me after giving birth and wanting to be comfortable in my own home. Any time I bring up anything "by law" he says I'm being crazy or mean, but I don't feel like I should have to compromise this argument Bc I'm the mom and baby needs mom and I'll be needing to be comfortable more than he will. 

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