I have been with my boyfriend for 8months, but have been talking for about 10 or 11 months. Anyway, we weren't ttc. We both go to a military college where he had an army scholarship and I was seeking an Air Force contract (I am not "seeking" anymore. I made that decision before I knew the news. I didn't quite because of the baby). Over Christmas break, I went to his house. We used protection, but I should have been on the pill. Here is my problem, I'm known back at home as the "nun" or the "Angel" and to break from that image I went to a military school to show people I'm more than just a dainty girl who always does right.. But now that I'm pregnant, people are going to judge me. To back track, my family knew I was sexually active, but they refused to acknowledge. I had always wanted to go on the pill, but was too afraid to let my family down by going on it. Well, I am pregnant now at 20 years old. I'm too young to be having a baby. I remember my HS teacher talking about young people having babies and she described it as "kids having kids". My lovely boyfriend is still in the picture, he is the best for me. We were planning on getting married even before the news; however because of his army scholarship, he can't get married until after college. I guess what I'm looking for by posting this is some support. I've told my family and they are all so excited and happy, but I haven't told any of my friends. They are all quite judgemental. They might judge me because I am young, not married, and still going to college. Could y'all give me some pointers on how to deal with those judgements, pray for me, and support me? Thank you 💕