Sores down below

Ok so if you had a herpes out brake would you be in pain or not? I think I could possibly have it (my partners ex is scum) my partner got tested when he found out she had it and he was all clear but I just can't shake the feeling, at first I had ripped/ cut my vagina above the clitourus and then it turned into reddish bumps with mild itching no pain or anything then my vagina darkened and now it is kind of healing, I also get really sensitive down there to scented predicts like toilet roll and soaps, in desperate need of advice thankyou!!!