She has been physically abused by her husband of four years, and they have two kids together. I just found out about the abuse. She said its only happened four times and each time he goes in for therapy. Well this time it was so bad that she called the cops and had him arrested. After he was bailed out by his (wealthy) parents, he decided to go to an in treatment facility in another state. He's been gone for about a month and while he was away, she decided to have an abortion. He doesn't know. He didn't even know she was pregnant. I feel as though this is very controversial because she did something that he should be aware of. My question is, if you were in that situation, would you fathom the thought?