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The only thing you can really do is trust that things will be okay. Talking to your partner is definitely key. Maybe look at seeing someone to talk to about your stress. They might prescribe some antidepressants so you can have less anxiety and focus on your own schooling. It's important that you don't overload your anxiety on your partner, it might overwhelm them and push them further away. When I was going through a similar situation my psych told me to make a list of controllable and uncontrollable things. For example, you can control the communication between you two, seeing someone to help deal with your anxiety, etc. and things that are uncontrollable like, busy schedules, time zones, attractions, etc, you can't control them, so they aren't worth your time and anxiety. You should focus on the things you can control so you've got a starting point.
Is there anyway to brace yourself for heartbreak
So my boyfriend is leaving to college while I'm attending community to get my associates for transfer, since I just don't have the money for college straight away. Since I've never been to college I've only seen movies about it, are there really that many temptations he will be facing ? And is there really any hope of it lasting, I've been thinking about this since he'd gotten his letter from university saying he was accepted the odds of us staying together are low because of the fact he will not be under his parents roof anymore and he will be doing all of this on his own no rules and regulations.. I'm really in love with him to the point where I was considering spending the rest of my life with this kid which I know is stupid ... This stress and pre heart break you could call it is really affecting my life in school and just overall happiness. Please help. Is there any way to brace myself for the almost inevitable ?
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