I'm thinking of having my IUD removed without telling my boyfriend. We've been together for three years and he did mention that if I were to get pregnant that he'd be scared but also happy. We're both artists and I'm afraid that if we keep putting off having a child it just won't happen. I'm 32 in a month and I want to see if we can get pregnant, but I feel sketchy doing this without saying anything to him about it. If I do, I know he'll stop coming inside me. If I don't, I know he would make it work. I don't want to trick him but sometimes I feel like it's the only way we'll ever have a kid. This sounds terrible but I need a safe place to say it.