Telling parents..

Michelle
Just found out yesterday I was pregnant with rainbow baby, 5 months  ago I miscarried and we told close family we were expecting. My parents want us married in a church with a big wedding due to my orthodox religion, what do we do. We just got help with buying a house and are in the process of closing so wedding money is out of the question right now, plus I don't even have a ring. What do I do I don't want to tell anyone  out of fear of miscarrying again and family being upset and judgemental. I'm so scared and nervous. What to do 😖😭