Before our daughter we had sex practically every other day if not every day , after the baby we're lucky if we get twice a week and I hate having my cycle because that's almost 2 weeks with no sex.. My fiancé has a grave yard shift leave work at 10:40pm gets home at 7am and wakes at 4pm then we go to gym then pick up baby from baby sitter and then coming home I have to make dinner clean up , feed baby take her a bath and by the time I'm done I'm too tired and therefore we can't really have sex .. And my daughter is clingy so she sleeps in our bed (bad I know ) I just couldn't take her screaming she wouldn't stop if I left her in her room any ways the only way we had sex (if we're lucky ) were Friday's when he was off and if I was able to place her in her crib ... But when we do finally have sex it's so ...AMAZING!!! :) so it's a drag waiting but it's worth it when it does happen , how about you lady's ??