I have a daycare situation and really need some opinions

My daughter goes to daycare three days a week. I took her for an extra day a couple weeks ago for a Valentine's Day party in which I discussed with the director and was given the OK a week prior to taking her. One of the caregivers that was there the morning that I dropped off my daughter was very distraught that my daughter was there because she had not been told by her director that she would be. I apologize and said that if it's a problem I will take my daughter with me and she won't stay for the day in which the woman said nothat's OK but started going over other procedures that I had never been informed of previously such as filling out information in a notebook. The woman also continue to say we just got off of "probation" and if the state catches us with too many kids again they will close us.So I discussed with my boyfriend how upset this woman was and also what she said about the daycare being under probation. So my boyfriend went into the daycare and begin to question the director in which we were told that this woman was overreacting. So I took my daughter today and dropped her off at daycare and this woman was there and did not look at me did not say hi did not do anything did not even say hi to my daughter which made me feel extremely uncomfortable. I need honest opinions as to what you would do in this situation would you get a new daycare would you discuss with the director how uncomfortable this woman is making me because at this point I don't feel that I trust her with my daughter.